What would you do if you get a rep?

of being a crazy,not good women, in others people`s eyes?they think you arent capable for anyone else as saying you are not fit for any guys because you just cant take care of yourself...does this same applies to women who drink?guys do you look down on such women?is this true such women would never get someone to like them since that s what people outside regard them as"hey dont you date that women shes crasy,she aint good for you,she would nvr know how to care of kids"? do people look down on them?but how if is not intentend it is ones nature of a person characters....they just do intended to behave like that is their nature how?does that mean she would be lonely and get all these critisism all her life sad isnt it?but is true...she had been the talk about even she though she nvr bothers about others